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Hello, We Are Perfecting The Balance

We want you to get to know us, here on our blog, Instagram, and Pinterest - we want to share with you what we like, what we don't; our favorite recipes, Bible verses, workouts, hair products, Birchbox finds, things about our kids, teaching tips, travel recommendations, finance advice, and favorite tips from every other corner of our lives.

Here at Perfecting the Balance (PTB), we each travel different life paths- but we all have things in common and we think you will have some in common with us too, so we want to share! We are moms, wives, girlfriends, widows, teachers, 9-5 workers, dog parents, fitness freaks, autoimmune disease fighters, foodies, Jesus lovers, clean eaters, gardeners, cosmetologists, stylists, party planners, students, penny pinchers, and much more.

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Amelia Banken

Amelia is a Jesus lover, wife and mommy of three. She is unapologetically herself but is learning to grow and accept wisdom  daily. She enjoys all things family and fitness, and enjoys trying new things and pushing herself outside of the box. 

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Christine Barnes

Christine is a Christian, an accountant, has her MBA, CPA student, Ulcerative Colitis warrior, dog mom to Athena, a widow, yoga teacher, sister, lover of St. Louis sports teams, meal prepper, OCD planner, CFO of Perfecting the Balance.

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Lari Jean Spitzer
Ashley Feltner

Ashley is a Christian, wife, mother, animal lover, and New England Patriots fanatic. She lives for change and loves to make decisions on impulse, which is how she has found herself moving from state to state - all across the East Coast and now to a small town in Southeast Missouri.

Lari Jean is a small town Christian with a passion for helping tiny humans, finding joy in the balance of each day, and living for life's "little things". She is a teacher, girlfriend, and a goal-getter. 

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